You have done a magnificent job of explaining to other women how to successfully handle your business. Although I have as firm a grasp on a woman's mechanics as any lesbian does, I'm a guy and most guys will be needing this explained (translated) into 'clear talk'.
Guys, go online and purchase a Hitachi Magic Wand. They are about $90 bucks. Dont buy anything else, something cheaper because it looks the same. No matter how your girl pretends to "only want you" or whatever, the industrial revolution happened, and it's time to modernize.
Your sex life will improve by 75% if you gently press the Wand on her "hooded lady" before you even have all your clothes off.
If they made soemething like that for men, society would collapse, we would live in caves, and never shower, all we would need is an A/C outlet.